Dear Friend,
If you’ve ever been in my office, you know that I have sticky notes of new Spanish (and some English!) words that I learn from my colleagues and clients. For instance, did you know that El Futuro means “The Future”? (You’d be surprised how many people ask me!)
Recently, one word has stuck with me.
During one of our substance use treatment sessions, I heard a young father share his testimony. He originally immigrated here to care for his aging parents, but the stressors of a new lifestyle led him to abuse alcohol. He said his addiction stole his life and he lost the chance to see his children grow. Now, however, sobriety gives him a new meaning for life: la convivencia.
Convivencia literally translates to living together, but a more robust translation would be “to live life together.” He learned that he could replace his drive to abuse substances with playing on the soccer team or joking with his coworkers or going to the lake with his family or having a dance party with his children. He learned the healing value of living life together.
In my 20 years with El Futuro, this is one of the most important lessons I can share: we belong to each other.
In fact, many of the tools used by El Futuro’s therapists, psychiatrists, peer support community health workers, and trainers are rooted in the healing properties of belonging to one another such as Family Systems Theory, Neurosocial Interdependence, and Paul Farmer’s Theory of Accompaniment, to name a few.
For the young father who shared his testimony, separation was all around him: the language his coworkers spoke, the behaviors his children brought home from school, the disapproving glare from an unfriendly neighbor, the long-distance phone calls with his family, and his own numbing sense of self-alienation through substance abuse.
However, his counselors and therapists helped him to see that he had strategies and strengths that he brought from his home country and his upbringing that could help buffer his mental health. Integrative mental health for this young father and hard-working employee meant restoring those connections and sources of support through conviviencia.
As I reflect on 20 years of El Futuro’s work, what I see is people helping people to take the next step forward, even in times of uncertainty. I see moms who are no longer paralyzed by post-traumatic stress and who are able to take good care of their kids. I see students who are able to feel calm and do well on their tests in order to be the next scholarship recipient. I see family after family overcoming fear and anxiety to do great things in our communities.
I see a community that belongs to one another.
One way that this community care is especially evident is in the 20 Latino-owned businesses that are committing their support to El Futuro here at year’s end.
If you are reading this letter, it is because at some point you have belonged to El Futuro and/or vice versa. Thank you!
And here, at the end of the year, I want to invite you to invest in El Futuro with your donation of support before December 31. We served 2,800 familias last year – more than ever before! And with your support, we will continue to serve even more in 2025.
By contributing to El Futuro, you help us to create community-owned, innovative, and effective responses that address our community’s needs. Things like our therapeutic garden, summer camps for kids, drunk driving simulations for teenagers, group programs for people who have experienced domestic violence, and so much more.
Thank you for being a part of El Futuro!
With thanks and all the brightest holiday wishes,
Luke Smith, MD
Executive Director and Psychiatrist